Women and Theology

One day a Christian lady actually apologised to me when she overheard our husbands talking theology. She thought my husband would be bored! So, why is it some women put off by theology…the study of God?

Laziness Leads to Deception

Sadly, for many years, I too was one of those women who assumed that theology was boring and complicated. One look at a thick hardcover theology book and my eyes used to glaze over! Some women may say they’re too busy with work and family to do any self study. Maybe it’s easier just to listen to someone online while going about the daily errands of life. And there are those who believe hearing one sermon on Sunday is more than enough. All these excuses come down to one thing…laziness with the Word of God.

Because theology is often perceived as a dry and academic discipline, many resources for women tend to go to the other extreme and focus on experience and emotions. We find ourselves inundated with books, blogs or videos recounting ‘relatable’ personal life experiences wrapped up in worldly wisdom and feel good messages. If the Bible is quoted it is often out of context. And again, our own laziness towards theology stifles us, blinding us to error and stopping us from fully appreciating the magnificence of God.  

Change your Habits

Studying theology sharpens our minds, allowing us to speak God’s truths with wisdom (see 2 Timothy 3:16). Our ability to discern increases, we ask more questions, we want depth to our teaching and Bible study, we begin to see the theological errors and are no longer willing to accept them.

Being more discerning, also helps us develop healthier and more edifying Christian friendships – friendships that are based on our mutual love of God and His Word. You will even begin to find yourself perceiving and handling life’s issues (both trials and blessings) from a Biblical perspective, rather than your own. Not only will you become a more Godly woman, but also a more faithful and stronger servant for the Lord.

A Better Prayer Life

A better understanding of Scripture also improves your prayer life. Let me illustrate…

At a women’s event a number of years ago, I was given a prayer gift-book. One of the prayers began with: “Here I come bounding into your arms…”   I was supposed to see myself as a child running to their dad for help…hmmm

Now have a look at Hebrews 4:16 and consider praying something like this: “Heavenly Father, with confidence I draw near to your throne of grace.  May I ask you for your help and grace in my time of need…”

Which prayer demonstrates a knowledge of the Word and a reverence for God? Just some food for thought as you ponder the value of theological study in your life…  

Where Do I Start?

If you give God the honour of reading and studying His Word with respect and diligence, and become discerning regarding which teachers and ministries you follow, our Lord will absolutely help you learn and grow in your walk with Him. To help get you started:

• Make sure you’re in a good teaching church that holds God’s Word to a high standard
• If you’re a new believer I recommend an ESV study Bible which provides explanatory notes to help you understand each verse
• If you’d like a simplified book on theology, try ‘Everyone’s a Theologian, An Introduction to Systematic Theology‘ by R.C. Sproul
• If you’d like an easy to read book on Christian doctrine try ‘Introducing Christian Doctrine‘, by Millard J. Erickson 
• If you’d like to read a book by a female author try ‘Flourish: How the Love of Christ Frees Us from Self-Focus‘ by Lydia Brownback

Be encouraged! Theology is for everyone and you don’t have to learn alone.  While there is no obligation to embark on formal study, at least give yourself a solid foundation by being part of a doctrinally sound church and reading a good Bible translation (such as the ESV, NASB 1995, Legacy Standard Bible or NKJV).